Top 10 Things You Should Know About Good Foreplay VS Bad Foreplay
It’s very simple – there’s good foreplay everyone will enjoy, and there’s bad foreplay that will most likely make you asexual. Here’s what to do to spice things up and what to avoid.
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1. Start The Game Outside The Bedroom
Unless you’re acting out a BDSM fantasy, sexual activity is not tied up to the bed. Make it more spontaneous, start off in the kitchen, the living room, the backyard, who cares! Either way, it will boost your adrenalin and make the foreplay more exciting.
2. Talk Dirty
Yes, and if you ever watched porn, you already know this. Both men and women like it because of its seductive power. Does it make us look like animals? Yes. Do we care? No.
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3. Do Something Unexpected
Surprise your partner with something new and make her or him even more aroused. Maybe slu… I mean, sexy clothes, sex toys, etc. But don’t go too far though, you know what I mean? Yeah, you know, you dirty mind.
4. Make It Last
Most people connect foreplay to just sex stuff. But it doesn’t have to be, not at all. It can even start in the morning. You and your partner are both at work, you start sexting throughout the day, come back home, take it to the next level.
5. Watch, But Don’t Touch
Or in short, tease. This is surely the best way you can arouse your partner. Do a little dance, or maybe even watch an adult movie together, but keep your hands to yourselves. Up to a certain point, that is. Then, just one touch and boom! You’ll both explode and go to sleep happy.
And now, let’s see some of the things you shouldn’t do.
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6. Talking Too Much
We know, we know, we just encouraged you to talk dirty and now we’re telling you to talk less. Well, dirty talk is different from “Is this okay? How do you feel? Should I stop?” Just don’t.
7. Rushing It
It’s not a competition – who gets to sex first. The whole point of foreplay is slowing it down, making it sexier.
8. The All-Time Favourite Mistake
Mistaking oral sex for foreplay. Yes, it can and should be A PART of it, but not just it. Foreplay is all about teasing and making you want to do it 10 times more then you did, remember that.
9. Thinking Only About What You Want
This one is pretty self-explanatory, right?
10. Lacking in Creativity
It’s okay, we don’t judge. But if this is the case, don’t pretend to know what you’re doing. It’s better to just let your partner take the initiative. This doesn’t mean you passively let your partner do whatever he or she wants but actively follow like a good little doggy. Kidding. Enjoy.
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